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Real Weddings - Eden & Kyle

Real Weddings - Eden & Kyle

How did you meet? We actually met on Facebook! We had some mutual friends online and Kyle added me after I popped up in his 'people you may know' suggestions haha!

What wedding vibe were you after? We were after a comfortable, intimate and fun-filled day. We wanted everyone (and ourselves) to feel relaxed throughout especially.

How did you choose your outfits? A LOT of Pinterest and Instagram scrolling for style inspiration! I was very fortunate to find my dress second-hand on StillWhite which I immediately fell in love with, and Kyle found an amazing suit at our local Tarocash store.

How did you decide on your venue? After downsizing our original plans of a 90-person wedding to a 22-person wedding, we were after a venue that was comfortable and intimate for our guests, but still had plenty of space for our ceremony and photo opportunities. It was also important to us that the venue was local on the Central Coast - so The Olive Grove in The Quarters, Forrester's Beach ticked all of our boxes!

Real Weddings - Laura & Ben

Real Weddings - Laura & Ben

Laura & Ben were married at Bidja Estate in Ourimbah, Central Coast. Here’s what they had to say about their big day.

How did you meet? We met at mutual friend's Birthday BBQ (that turned into a late night out!) We chatted the whole time and the rest is history.

What was the first thing you decided on as a couple when arranging your big day? That we wanted to be as intimate and authentic as possible.

What wedding vibe were you after? Relaxed but sophisticated and FUN.

How did you choose your outfits? A bit of good old online inspo and a 'gut' feeling when it came to trying them on.

How did you decide on your venue? As soon as we drove down the driveway to Bidja Estate we knew it was the place for us. A friend of ours got married there years ago and it matched the vibe we were after.

What Does a Legals Only Wedding Involve in Australia?

What Does a Legals Only Wedding Involve in Australia?

In Australia, a "legal-only" wedding refers to a ceremony that focuses solely on fulfilling the legal requirements to register a marriage. This type of wedding is often chosen for its simplicity, cost-effectiveness, or before a larger, more elaborate ceremony.

Here’s what is involved in a legal-only wedding in Australia:

1. Choosing a Celebrant

  • Registered Celebrant: You’ll need to engage a registered celebrant who is authorised to conduct marriages in Australia. They will ensure that the ceremony complies with all legal requirements.

  • Simple Ceremony: For a legal-only wedding, the celebrant will perform a very straightforward ceremony focusing solely on the legal aspects.

2. Legal Requirements

Real Weddings - Rose & Nick

Real Weddings - Rose & Nick

Rose and Nick were married at The Willow Estate at the Hunter Valley

How did you meet? Online

What was the first thing you decided on as a couple when arranging your big day?  whether we were going to have a big or small intimate wedding

What wedding vibe were you after?something simple, and a vibe where everyone could just enjoy each other's company. We went for a more relaxed, intimate kind of vibe.

How did you choose your outfits?Researched online different types of styles, and figured which ones we loved the most. Tried on at a few places till we both found the one.

How did you decide on your venue? Looking at our options, visiting different places till we found the right fit. We also read reviews as well as looked at location. Overall we did a lot of research before settling. 

What To Look For When Choosing A Marriage Celebrant

What To Look For When Choosing A Marriage Celebrant

Choosing a marriage celebrant is a pivotal decision in the wedding planning process. They play a central role in creating the ceremony that marks your union. The right celebrant can bring your vision to life, create the vibe you’re looking for, make the ceremony memorable (for all the right reasons), engage your guests, liaise with your vendors, make the whole process of getting married effortless and enjoyable. The wrong choice can lead to a ceremony that feels less personal, and meaningful, a ceremony that feels a bit copy and paste.

Here’s a guide to help you find the perfect marriage celebrant for your special day:

1. Qualifications and Credentials

 **Certification** Ensure the celebrant is legally authorised to perform weddings which means they should be registered with the Attorney General. Check their credentials at https://marriage.ag.gov.au/commonwealthcelebrants/all

Real Weddings - Em and Mat

Real Weddings - Em and Mat

How did you meet?  We met in High School, a classic teenager romance. Neither of us has ever had to worry about dating, or tinder. But at the same time, we had alot of growing up to do. We couldn't stay away from each other, and it ended up working out perfectly.

What was the first thing you decided on as a couple when arranging your big day? The first thing we decided on was the music. We both have similar tastes so that part was super easy!

What wedding vibe were you after? The vibe we were after was bright and cheerful, of course! Its the best way to describe our approach to life and to our relationship.

How did you decide on your venue? We chose the venue that could offer us the full package of service to avoid any unnecessary stress on the day. There was plenty of stress even without all those extra tasks!

Writing Your Own Vows

Writing Your Own Vows

This is one of the most special parts of a ceremony.

You get to say to the person that you’re about to marry - what they mean to you, why you’re looking forward to marrying them, anything really. But the important thing is that you have written them, to say to that all important person, on the big day, in front of your loved ones.

It often gets pretty emotional here, so it’s worth putting in a bit of effort to choose or script vows that really pack a punch. They can be funny, serious, teasing – anything you want! Below are some tips to help you write those vows. 

Share or Surprise?

Decide whether you’d like to write your vows together or keep them secret from each other until the ceremony. Either way works really well – just think about what works for you as a couple. If you do decide to keep them as a surprise, make sure you send them to me before the ceremony so I can make sure you’re both on the same wave length.